Communication
Do you
find yourself communicating differently with people from different groups and
cultures?
If
yes, in what ways do you communicate differently? I don't find myself communicating with people from different groups or culture differently. I find myself communicating the same with everyone. I try to treat people "as they themselves would like to be treated" ( Beebe, Beebe, Redmond, 2011 pg.114). The Platinum Rule is a way I been communicating with children and their families. Shouldn't matter if your culture is different people are people and we should respect their space. I also don't like when I see group of children or people treat another person different because they don't look the same or dress the same as their group. "Cultural Myopia is especially dangerous when members of the dominant group in a society are unaware of or are insensitive toward the needs and values of members of others in the same society" (O'Hair, Wiemann 2012 pg.45). This behavior is so inhumane and so wrong I do not condone this type of behavior. However nonverbal communication I am finding myself becoming more aware of different signs and expressions on people faces and hand movement. Sometimes I can have a mom walk in my class and her face expressions tells me that she is having a rough morning. I will remind them to take it easy and not to worry or just give them hug. I truly believe their energy can rub off on my student and they will have a bad morning. Positive energy is a the key for a good and bless day.Reference:
O'Hair, D., & Wiemann, M. (2012). Real communication: An introduction. New York: Bedford/St. Martin's
Beebe, S. A., Beebe, S. J., & Redmond, M. V. (2011). Interpersonal communication: Relating to others (6th ed.). Boston, MA: Allyn & Bacon.
- Chapter 4, "Interpersonal Communication and Diversity: Adapting to Others" (pp. 85–114)
Positive thoughts lead to positive responses. Sometimes a kind word or hug can go a long way in lifting a person’s disposition. This helps build reciprocal relationships with others. Your kind gestures are sure to make a difference in those you come in contact with.
ReplyDeleteGreat post!
I do believe a lot of what you said is true, but I also believe that cultural myopia can sometimes become a subconscious behavior and people may not even realize they are guilty of it. I think it is something that people need to be aware of and need to change it when they realize it is happening, but sometimes they may not realize what it is or how it is taking form. I don't believe it is right to judge them or believe that they are being inhumane if they are not educated about what it is and strategies on how to make sure they are not doing it anymore.
ReplyDeleteFacial expressions helps a lot when communicating with parents. I can usually tell by the quick responses or body language when the parent can talk and is not in a rush. As the assistant teacher in my classroom I try to build relationships with my parents so that they can know I am there for them and their child. Also, I think its is awesome that you provide hugs and words of encouragement. Im looking forward to implementing these things with the parents. Positive words will stay with a person throughout their day! Thanks for sharing!
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